'Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.' 2 Corinthians 1:3,4 

Mary first experienced betrayal in the early years of her marriage. At that time, there were few, if any, resources to help either the sexual struggler or the betrayed spouse. The advice she received was designed for a quick fix. Get over it. Don't ask questions. Don't tell anyone. Forgive. Forget. Above all, don't hurt the ministry. Sadly, women are still receiving the same devastating advice from well-meaning friends, counselors, and church leaders.



When she experienced betrayal again, Mary found that although more resources were available for the traumatized spouse, the number of trained mentors was woefully inadequate. As a result, she founded Ragged to Redeemed, a mentoring ministry devoted to helping women heal from the hurt and trauma of sexual and emotional betrayal.  A former pastor's wife, Mary understands firsthand the feelings of grief, desperation, and hopelessness. Her passion is to walk with women to hope and healing, particularly those whose husbands are, or have been, in ministry leadership positions.



Mary is a Bravehearts Certified Professional Mentor and is a member of AWSA (Advanced Writers and Speakers Association). She is the author of  three books, including the award winning Bible study Joseph: Beyond the Coat of Many Colors. She has written articles for Focus on the Family, Voice of Truth  (Women World Leaders), and other publications. She is a retreat and special events speaker and is available to come to your church or special event.

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Mary Murphy                                    ragged2023@gmail.com

Certified Professional Mentor       

Central Florida